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Sportsmanship Fairness



Sadly, players and mentors can get so over-involved to winning that they dismiss why they’re on the sports ground. On the off chance that your children play sports, odds are you’ve seen improper and notwithstanding stunning conduct from the restricting partners or more terrible yet, trainers and different custodians. The Bible speaks often of athletic analogies and stories as encouragements for persevering. Remember that whether you win or lose, God can be glorified through your hard work and effort!.



1 Corinthians 9:24-26

24 Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize.

25 Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever.

26 Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air.

sportsmanship-fairness“Poor sportsmanship, which can be learned or endured by guardians and mentors, can prompt issues sometime down the road for kids,” cautioned Dr. Joe Congeni. “Issues in marriage, family life and particularly the working environment, where cooperation is vital, can emerge. Children may grow up believing it’s alright to shout and battle to get their direction.” Keep in mind the phrase, “Actions speaks louder than words?” That’s particularly genuine with regards to instructing your children the essentials of good sportsmanship, which ought to include regard for the amusement and standards, players and authorities. Your conduct amid practices and recreations will impact your children more than any liveliness talk or address you give them.


I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.

2 Timothy 4:7

After a competition, it’s important not to dwell on who won or lost. Instead, try asking, “How did you feel you did during the game?” If your child feels weak at a particular skill, like throwing or catching, offer to work on it together before the next game. Applaud good plays no matter who makes them.

Set a good example with your courteous behavior toward the parents of kids on the other team. Congratulate them when their kids win. Remember that it’s your kids, not you, who are playing. Don’t push them into a sport because it’s what you enjoyed. As kids get older, let them choose what sports they want to play and decide the level of commitment they want to make.

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separation, growing apart


Farewells and goodbyes are something that nobody ever needs to confront. Notwithstanding whether it’s a companionship or close sentimental relationship, it’s never simple. A few connections simply don’t work out, and occasionally there are different things hindering a relationship. You may need to move away or the individual you are near may have a hazardous condition that takes them to a superior place. Farewells are a piece of everybody’s life. Whereas there is no splendid side to stating goodbye, we at some point in our life will tackle this matter.

Not all connections can continue forever. This implies concluding a relationship is an unavoidable part of being human. In any case, finishing a relationship on a decent note is frequently more attractive than ending it in rage and frustration or a wrath and dissatisfaction. In case you’re in a battling relationship and feel that it’s the ideal opportunity for it to end, you might need to know how to agreeably end a relationship. Keep a tight rein over your feelings and remember the feelings of the other party.


Genesis 31:49

The Lord watch between you and me, when we are out of one another’s sight.

2 Corinthians 5:17

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.


At the point when individuals part, it’s often not forever, regardless of the relationship. In case you’re faced with a situation that expects you to state farewell to a dear companion, one thing to remember is that if you were ever truly friends in the first place; it is extremely unlikely that the bond can be broken. Nothing can divide two individuals who truly think about each other. They will unvaryingly discover their way back.


Ruth 1:16-17

But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to return from following you. For where you go I will go, and where you lodge I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there will I be buried. May the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death parts me from you.”

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Strong Minded

Strong minded

The distinction between hardheaded vs. strong minded is important. Hardheaded has a lot to do with attitude . . . “I am right and this is the way I’m doing things.” A strong mind, on the other hand, is not wrapped up in ego, is willing to change plans if their circumstances change, and embraces failure as a way of learning to become stronger.

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strong minded

Matthew 7:16-20 strong minded

You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.


Strong minded, to me is much more about perseverance and humility. Its saying that I am going to move forward towards my goal no matter what, and that I am willing to listen to others and admit when my ideas and attempts have been wrong. When a person is strong-minded, they have the energy and stamina to face a challenge without being robbed of inner strength.

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Colossians 3:17

And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, [do] all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.

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James 4:17

Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth [it] not, to him it is sin.


I think some people get in trouble when they believe that admitting mistakes is a form of being weak-minded or even weak in general. Yet, if you are willing to admit failures and mistakes and keep pressing forward to correct your wrong. This behavior would prove yourself to be strong a minded person.


Galatians 6:9

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.



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Best Me I Can Be


At work and at home we face a multitude of decisions every day. Giving our best to all that we do and doing the right thing at the right time could frequently cause a dilemma. We need to surround ourselves around great people, I constantly go for principle-based leaders and really try hard to choose the right one to follow. We live in a world which lacks flawlessness. There are few really good clear and right choices as well. There could be an intermediate factor. I suppose there is importance in establishing a proactive self empowerment, and we should embrace change as a growth opportunity.


Decipher between right and wrong

Equally important, being a better you is essential; only determination will lead to a better (version of) you. Better is based on our own values and ethics in doing the right thing as opposed to doing things right. Doing the Right Thing or Doing Things Right has fundamental differences. The problem is recognizing the difference and striking a balance. However, doing the right thing is a matter of integrity. Furthermore,Most people can decipher between right and wrong. The difficult part is having the integrity to “do the right thing.” A good starting point (in becoming a better you) could be, consenting to focusing on continual core strengthening.


In my research, these are my top picks in “being a better you”:

  • Dedicate your life to doing what you love
  • Manage your Attention
  • Manage your Agreements
  • Stop negative self-talk as soon as you see it coming.
  • Know how to say no.
  • Learn something new every day.
  • Celebrate your imperfections.
  • Experienced failure.
  • Explore, Have fun, Love yourself, Own it, Learn, Create, Stay excited.

I’m still learning that my actions and inaction’s shapes my future. It took time to learn that this reality and everything in it is pure energy at our disposal to create the world we focus our intentions on. I can honestly say being a caring responsible person has its benefits and always seem to put me in more fitting circumstances to live the life I want. But whenever I indulged in negativity I often attract it into my life, it’s not easy to stop to be truthful.