Do not judge so that you will not be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged. And by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. “Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye? But do not notice the log that is in your own eye!!!
Dealing with negative criticism is the hardest. All of us come across taxing and challenging people, we need to manage these troublesome individuals now and again. Maybe it is a hysterical neighbor or a domineering colleague. In light of this, we know there are proficient methods to manage nagging folks. I challenge anybody reading this blog to disclose to me that he/she has ever felt in different, not to mention inspired, improved, perked up, or upgraded when put on the less than desirable; receiving end of an impact of criticism/feedback.
Loads of us [fail] to recognize that the blades of pessimistic criticism which individuals stick in us are equally as sharp and destructive as those made of steel and borne by professional killers… our general public has by one means or another tailored us to acknowledge the idea that feedback of different kinds will undoubtedly be beneficial for us. That it will influence us more to develop. That one of the signs of being a grown up is the capacity to ingest a wide range of basic punches, points, and pushes. That the more it harms the better for us.
Do all things without grumbling or disputing; so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I will have reason to glory because I did not run in vain nor toil in vain.
Do not speak against one another, brethren He who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law; but if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge of it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the One who is able to save and to destroy; but who are you who judge your neighbor?
It’s actual that many individuals decline to tune in to totally suspicious feedback. Be that as it may, we are being suffocated by the “self improvement” strategy that we should tune in to feedback since it is reliably “blessings” from individuals who think about us! The general population who rush to call attention to the significance of tuning in to valuable feedback overlook the flip-side; that other individuals can utilize negative and dangerous feedback as an effective weapon to separate us!
This rival is partial to pointing out your defects… all that you do is terrible… and the criticizer feels constrained to reveal to all of you about it, regardless of the possibility that you would prefer not to hear it.