Falling in love is as pleasurable and thrilling as a sunrise on a white sandy beach. We are created to fall in love. People who have a high frequency of love experiences tend to have high self-confidence. Anyone who has loved and lost, and loved again will tell you just how addictive love can be. But beyond the surface even the smallest part of you, your cells, are working to bond with companionship. We tend to gravitate to similar personalities in others. It is only natural that one likes someone who is easy to talk to, because they understand you and every simple statement doesn’t have to be backed up by an elaborate explanation of what you’re trying to say.
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful.
Love is more than sex! We jump to the conclusion that sex is involved; not realizing that camaraderie are much deeper than 10 minutes of blissful lust. You can choose to surrender to love, or not, but in the end love strikes like lightening, unpredictable and irrefutable.
List to mull over:
- Commonalities that you share
- Shared emotional connections
- Relative values and moralities
- Alike patience
- Honesty, humble and approachable
- Faithful and spiritually sound
You know you’re falling in love when you like that person a lot and having to pretend to be so blasé about it. And, all the time you are experiencing high anxiety when you’re in their company. You have to restrain yourself from talking about that person with your friends all the time. If you could you’d gush about them constantly. But out of respect for your friends and their sanity, you hold back…