“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18)
“A soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
YOU CAN LEARN:
Develop genuine interest in people. When you talk to a person always make sure you focus only on that particular individual and don’t get distracted by anything else. Follow Abraham Lincoln’s famous self-instruction: “I do not like that man; therefore I shall get to know him better.” You can learn to care about others around you. You can learn to trust people around you and by doing this other people will be interested in you. They will care about what you have to say and will trust you.
A SONG OF ASCENTS OF DAVID:
Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity! It is like the precious oil on the head, running down on the beard, on the beard of Aaron, running down on the collar of his robes! It is like the dew of Hermon, which falls on the mountains of Zion! For there the Lord has commanded the blessing, life forevermore. (Psalm 133:1-3 )
By taking the time to “actively listen” to others, and encouraging them to share their ideas; we can build a positive environment around us. People have an natural desire to get along with others. Though everyone may want to get along with others this doesn’t always mean they do successfully. Effort and optimism are a winning combination when you use them in your daily communications with others. We should believe that we can learn a little something from everyone.
SHOW GENUINE INTEREST:
Honestly, it is extremely interesting to know about other people, the lives they lead, the kind of challenges they have had and their philosophies of life. And it is a great high to know that you can connect to them at these levels even if they are from a different country or a race or religion or language. No matter what diversity you share – you still show genuine interest, people would love to talk to you.
Not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock. And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory. Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (1 Peter 5:3-5 )
Being able to recognize a problem before it transpire is the most effective way to “PROBLEM SOLVING”. Image this scenario:
Two people who tend to frequently argue and fight (due to immense deference of opinions) are at a breaking point. You step in and separate them so matters don’t escalate…
This scenario illustrates a common event in problem solving.
Now, you may ask, what does this have to do with getting along with people?
If you apply the same skill level with recognizing a problem before it happens to your own personal daily life. People will trust in you and gravitate to you like a magnet. When you focus on the way you present yourself to others, and openly share your optimistic views. As well as, be reasonable and negotiate fairly. You will reduce the drama in your own life. Then you can laugh, listen, and continue to have positive growth as you learn!!!
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